Hugh O’Donovan is a Coaching Psychologist, Lecturer, & Author of the excellent book ‘Mindful Walking’. He also been an Entrepreneur and was a member of the Irish Army for 23 years. During this episode, Hugh reflects on many of the stand out moments in his career and shares very valuable insights and practical tips that you could use to become a better version of yourself. For me, some of the key takeaways here touch on discipline, developing awareness, giving yourself a choice, mental well-being and the idea of flourishing!I would recommend you take out a pen and paper for this one.Thanks for your ongoing support and listening. Hope you’re enjoying this as much as I’m enjoying sharing it.A summary of topics covered:
Improving Performance & Mood
The value of Acts of Random Kindness
Mindfulness and the evidence behind how it’s working
Experimenting in Mindfulness
The physical benefits of movement
Learning the skills of focusing attention
The curious thing about walking and how a natural mindfulness comes when you’re moving
Incorporating Mindfulness into many things you do
23 years-experience in the Army
The importance of discipline learned in the Army and how mindfulness also invites you to approach things in a disciplined way
Having a Busy mind – but building the awareness of these thoughts
Leaving you with a choice to breath
Behavioural changed in society
The challenge of transitioning from the Army into Civilian Life
Being in Business but not being driven to earn money!
Losing a friend to a tragic event and identifying this as a turning point
The importance of reviewing, reflecting and re-evaluating
The Army being all about Service
Values, Goals and Actions
Congruent Goals & making sense of the path and direction
How Hugh managed to get out of the business
Moving into psychology and feeling like this was the right place
All of us being psychologies as we are all trying to understand things!
Positive psychology and the science of flourishing
Martin Seligman and understanding the need for a rebalancing on mental wellbeing
Focusing on mental wellbeing instead of mental illness
Beyond Zero and flourishing
The importance of Gratitude
A negativity bias as part of the human condition
Keeping a diary/journal to track the things you savoured from day!
Rewiring the Brain & neuroplasticity
How can you get people to buy into the practice of journaling?
Keep yourself safe and avoid discomfort
Mindfulness asking us to observe our experience and explore discomfort
Appreciate comfort and discomfort
Exploring the edges of own discomfort
The writing process and what lead Hugh to write the book!
An exercise to try – ‘asking yourself to writing a letter to yourself in the future’
The secret of writing – sit down and write – 100 words a day x 365 = 36500
Writing the book as being the best year of Hugh’s life
The formal and informal practices of Mindfulness’s
The manta of ‘showing up, slowing down, and noticing what comes up!’
The invisible becomes visible when we do this!
Taking the new attitude towards life
The only time you know when you’re fully present? – aware of the breath – the only way!!
Acronyms to help you remember approaches
FORM = Focus, Observe, Reflection, Meaning (new) = FORM
FARM = Focus, Act, Reflection, Meaning (new)
The 7 pillars of mindfulness
Mindfulness is not about performance, it’s about observing what is
How the attitude towards mindfulness has changed over the last decade
Concerns with how Mindfulness could be used to get more out of the system!
The Finite System with finite resources!
The economic system is about growth and there is tension!
Changing mindsets and nudge people towards behaviours that keep us in a good place!
Current work and research in coaching psychology
Working with the HSE and the GLOW (goals for life opting for wellness) program
Plans for the next book that promises to be ground breaking